Tuesday, March 1, 2011
oh, hello March
it is March already?! The next 5 weeks are going to reek of March. It's already spring here. It's quite nice. :) I hope March brings more happiness, love, and fun. This friday is me and Robbie's 6 months. Saturday is my "best friend"'s bday. She has changed alot and it is completely different. To be honest, I don't quite approve of her new and recent actions. But she is still my friend. My boyfriend really doesn't want me around people who are like her. He doesn't like her at all specifically. She invited me to her bday dinner and it'd be rude to say no I can't, nonetheless, say it's cause my boyfriend doesn't like you. I understand his reasoning but I can just see this ending up a huge disaster. I'm really not sure what to say. She is the only lady friend I really have and I like gossiping once in awhile. And it could be fun, although I don't hang with the people she's invited and it'd be crazy. I'm stuck here and not sure how to word it either way. :/ I need advice.
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Hi Kaitlyn. So…if you go, Robbie might be mad cause he doesn’t really want you to be hanging around with her….but if you don’t go you’ll feel bad and she’ll be upset with you. It sounds like she’s not being a great friend at this moment, but has been your bestest for a long time before that. Relationships go through phases and they don’t all last forever. I think it’s fine to go to the party to honor the friend she has been in the past, and the happy memories you share.
ReplyDeleteMy advice: go, but don’t stay very long. This way you are being polite (and preventing drama from her hurt feelings if you didn’t go). You could call her before the party and tell her you can’t stay for very long so she won’t be surprised at the party when you leave early. If you have a heart-to-heart talk with her, be careful not to judge her for how she’s changed. This just might be a short phase that she needs to experience and learn from on her own. Just acknowledge that you two are going two different directions right now and that that’s life, and that’s ok. And you never know, you two could end up being close again.